refs: add a concept of a reference transaction

refs: add a concept of a reference transaction

Build out the API for dealing with a bunch of reference checks and
changes within a transaction.  Define an opaque ref_transaction type
that is managed entirely within refs.c.  Introduce functions for
beginning a transaction, adding updates to a transaction, and
committing/rolling back a transaction.

This API will soon replace update_refs().

Signed-off-by: Michael Haggerty <mhagger@alum.mit.edu>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>