builtins: send usage_with_options() help text to standard output

builtins: send usage_with_options() help text to standard output

Using the show_usage_with_options_if_asked() helper we introduced
earlier, fix callers of usage_with_options() that want to show the
help text when explicitly asked by the end-user.  The help text now
goes to the standard output stream for them.

The test in t7600 for "git merge -h" may want to be retired, as the
same is covered by t0012 already, but it is specifically testing that
the "-h" option gets a response even with a corrupt index file, so
for now let's leave it there.

Acked-by: Jeff King <peff@peff.net>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>